Question time: How often do you actually talk to strangers in MMOs?

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This is Terminally Online: PC Gamer's very own MMO column. Every other week, I'll be sharing my thoughts on the genre, interviewing fellow MMO-heads like me, taking a deep-dive into mechanics we've all taken for granted, and, occasionally, bringing in guest writers to talk about their MMO of choice.

As MMOs have continued to adjust themselves for a more modern (and aging) audience with pesky things like 9-5 jobs, children, and—heaven forbid—other social responsibilities, they've tilted towards more solo-friendly content. Most of Final Fantasy 14's main story quest can be played without grouping with a single living person—World of Warcraft now has solo-friendly endgame options like Delves or Prey to keep you busy, and so on.

Not to mention the wider design—on the whole, casual content requires less coordination and classes are more self-sufficient. It's entirely possible to log into an MMO, play for a few hours, and dip without having ever said a single thing to anybody beyond a wave when you enter a dungeon, or a "ty4p" at the end of it.

Heck, I've been guilty of this, occasionally. I get most of my socialisation in MMOs out during roleplay, but when it comes to actually playing the game and running content, I'm a bit of a lone wolf. I'm polite, sure, but I don't tend to stick around to chat with strangers. I've got my cosy little bubble and I'm sticking in it.

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As a matter of fact, while I'm very sociable within the gaming communities I'm a part of, I'm a little bit standoffish and nonverbal when it comes to the wider gaming public. Not for any fear or anxiety, mind, I just have a limited social battery and choose to spend it on the nice folks I've already got in my Discord.

Which had me thinking—how social are you, Terminally Online reader? Do you make time to chat to strangers in cities? Do you dig into player housing nightclubs and strike up a conversation with somebody, or flag someone down while they're levelling? Or do you just play MMOs to have a little bit of company in the background during your gaming time?

Thanks to the power of magic (and also our poll system), we can find out. Fill in the poll below—and if I've not covered your unique social interaction style, feel free to hop into the comments and discuss.

Best MMOsBest strategy gamesBest open world gamesBest survival gamesBest horror games

Best MMOs: Most massive
Best strategy games: Number crunching
Best open world games: Unlimited exploration
Best survival games: Live craft love
Best horror games: Fight or flight

Harvey Randall
Staff Writer

Harvey's history with games started when he first begged his parents for a World of Warcraft subscription aged 12, though he's since been cursed with Final Fantasy 14-brain and a huge crush on G'raha Tia. He made his start as a freelancer, writing for websites like Techradar, The Escapist, Dicebreaker, The Gamer, Into the Spine—and of course, PC Gamer. He'll sink his teeth into anything that looks interesting, though he has a soft spot for RPGs, soulslikes, roguelikes, deckbuilders, MMOs, and weird indie titles. He also plays a shelf load of TTRPGs in his offline time. Don't ask him what his favourite system is, he has too many.

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